The Unspoken Rules: How to Win at Work Without Losing Yourself

The Unspoken Rules: How to Win at Work Without Losing Yourself

Ciao Bella,

Let’s get real—success in corporate spaces and entrepreneurship isn’t just about what’s on your resume. It’s also about learning the unspoken rules—the ones no one tells you, but everyone expects you to know.

These invisible expectations can make or break careers, especially for Black women and women of color who are often navigating multiple layers of bias, microaggressions, and double standards. You can be brilliant, qualified, and hardworking—and still find yourself sidelined because you didn’t know the “game behind the game.”

That’s why The Bella Network is dedicating our August 21 Zoom session to unpacking Politics, Power, and Positioning—the trio that shapes every boardroom and business deal, whether spoken or not.

The Hidden Curriculum: What They Don’t Teach You in School

In every company, there’s a playbook that isn’t printed. It’s passed through whispers, lunch meetings, and exclusive circles. Understanding office dynamics, unspoken alliances, and silent red flags can help you move from overlooked to undeniable.

We’ll talk about:

  • How to read the room and navigate power structures

  • Identifying gatekeepers, influencers, and hidden decision-makers

  • Ways to align your goals without losing your authenticity

Executive-Level Storytelling: Don’t Just Speak—Influence

Facts tell, but stories sell—and that includes selling your value. Whether you’re pitching a business idea, reporting to executives, or advocating for your team, how you say it matters as much as what you say.

You’ll learn:

  • How to craft narratives that resonate with senior leadership

  • Ways to position your accomplishments without shrinking or shrinking others

  • Why emotional intelligence is your secret weapon in every room

Difficult Conversations: The Do’s and Don’ts

Microaggressions. Backhanded compliments. Power plays. We’ve all faced them. But knowing when and how to respond can either escalate the situation—or build respect.

This session will cover:

  • When to speak up vs. when to strategize silently

  • Setting boundaries without burning bridges

  • Scripts and tools for leading hard conversations with grace and strength

Why This Matters More Than Ever

Too many women are exhausted from code-switching, walking on eggshells, or being “liked but not promoted.” We’re done playing small.

This isn’t about playing politics for politics’ sake—it’s about owning your narrative, protecting your peace, and positioning yourself to thrive.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re working twice as hard for half the recognition, this session is for you.

The Unspoken Rules: Politics, Power & Positioning
Wednesday, August 21st
Time: 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM PT (Virtual on Zoom)
Free to attend, open to all Bella Women

Register Here – https://thebellanetwork.com/event/the-unspoken-rules/#rsvp-now

Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Cv64wxAS5aZfHeT1NGZIQ

Together, we’ll decode the unwritten and rewrite the narrative.

With deep gratitude,
From one Bella to another
– Alisha White Madison
Founder, The Bella Network

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